- I've always thought that the most important thing is to avoid conflict and make everyone happy but I think being uncomfortable and challenging others is important. While I do this for minor things, for a lot of things I do let it slide and don't fight. - There's a balance between not getting too caught but also doing enough so you're educating and challenging others positions. - The balance is discussed at [[Courage at Work]] ---- "I hate conflict, and I never want to make a fuss or create an uncomfortable situation. But my conversation with Luvvie Ajayi Jones convinced me this is actually not a trait to be proud of. Instead, standing up against the tide is a muscle I need to develop and grow instead." - [Link](https://ideas.ted.com/how-to-be-a-better-human-podcast-tips-advice/)