- There's often a gradual escalation of problematic behaviour. And when it's allowed and not nipped in the bud it increases and becomes more of a problem. - When frogs are thrown into boiling water they immediately jump out but if you put frogs in water and slowly increase temperature to boiling they end up suffering and dying. - This especially leads to the [[Bystander Effect]] --- #curiousminds 179: Marissa King on Feeling Good About Networking